Happy 4th Month Anniversary

I have written a number of love stories, read many books with love letters, but somehow I find a common problem men are always in, "How to express one-self, the feeling of love for wife, after marriage?"

We both don't belong to the American age, somehow sandwich between the two Indian generation, one the conservative and other the liberal gen-Y or gen-Z, it is stressful to expression feelings. The word Expression itself is changing these days, from a more emotional, eye-to-eye contact to more physical, grab-me-&-kiss-me. How I feel, on the 4th Month anniversary of our marriage is a little difficult.

To start with technically we don't have exactly spent the 4 months together. She worked in Delhi, why I moved around in Bangalore; phone being our only connecting point. Yet, we know so much more about each other than what we learned during our courtship period. But the one feeling which I had from the moment I felt saying yes to this girl, till date is I have found a really supporting friend in her. She celebrates my happiness but at the same time keeps me grounded. Not once she has let me gloat in the moment of happiness too long. And the best part is how she comfort me in time of sickness, mentally or physically.

With all difficulties I find the true word to express her is really, A FRIEND. I look forward to evenings now for a change, I find standing in the kitchen helping enjoying and yes the feeling when she will grab my arm and wrap her hand around it, says that she will be around me.

Love is an art, which has many lessons, like drawing. One day you are sketching the next day coloring.

We started 4th months a journey with 7 promises to our ancestors & blessings of our parents and family as Husband and Wife. Now after making back & forth trip, staying away, hours of phone calls and then starting a life together, I know we are true friends.

HAPPY 4th Month Anniversary, My Dear!!!